divinu: I am not sure exactly what you mean in regards to the media potraying street racing. What I do know is that a few years ago motorway toll road high speed racing was still active a la Midnight Wangan. These days its rare and I heard from the locals that the police have clamped down. You see here the coppers use tuned GT-Rs, STis, RX-7s and I heard even NSXs for high speed patrol cars. They will give chase where the normal Crowns can't.
In the mountain touge the police actually turn a blind eye as long as there are no accidents and complaints. Sometimes they show up and break it up. In all the times I've been on the Hakone roads at least the drifters and grip racers do several rounds and repeat with no interference. I suppose one of the reasons is because up in the mountains they aren't really disturbing anyone.
The reason I said no one really pokes their face into your business is more in the sense of everyday life. In Britain neighbors can be a little nosy even if you take up a new sport for example.
Dino-Spumoni: Yes I can speak, read and write Japanese. Not like a native though. Although my mother's family is of Japanese decent, I never learnt anything really useful. I've been studying the language for years and really improved when I got here 3 years ago.
Some of the things I like about Japan would be the safety first and foremost. A young woman can walk home late at night unaccompanied without much problems. Even in supposedly 'dangerous' areas this can still be done with minimal caution. I am saying this in comparison to other like the U.K. and some European countries.
I love the selection of food you can get here. The Japanese love all foreign food and its really in abundance here. Prices are very reasonable too.
The people are generally very nice and polite. You don't get trouble from street chavs or even toughs. They just mind their own thing while older people here are extremely helpful and nice.
Japan is the land of high tech. Its almost a given that just about every electronic appliance you can get would be supremely advanced and you see it here first. In the car world, I would be able to get first hand information on new models and get a test drive. So far I've test drove the FD2 R, GRB STI, GDB A-Line, G37 Skyline, new Fit and some others.
What I don't like is their habit of not wanting to take responsibility. For instance if you ask a shop to do something that is a little out of their scope of business, they would give you some lame excuse and 'push' responsibility away. You won't ever get a straight answer but make it seem that that task is not possible.
Sometimes if you ask a shop staff who doesn't know about something they will still make you wait while they 'confirm' with upper management that they can't help you when you have already guessed the answer from their expression in the first place.
There are lots of other things that piss me off from time to time intermittently. So far its all quite small issues in totality. Not unlivable but I think I have a high tolerance than most with such things.
My Japanese girlfriend sometimes comes up with pretty ridiculous arguments that in the Western mindset seems absurd. But overall its also about understanding that you are in their culture so at the same time the Japanese would have trouble understanding say British culture and the way we do things just the same.
I hope this answers your questions.