I often find it hard to compare cars like this to an equivelant honda i'd like to own.
I do like them old and new i just wouldnt want to own one - they just lack something special something i cant put my hand on !
As for the lift off oversteer debate - a guy i know of had his focus rs for little over a couple of weeks and folded it in two round a street light - he said he didnt even realise the back end had stepped out ! It was written off and he went ahead and bought another Focus RS !
I guess it depends what kind of car you were after - i guess is i wanted a fast FWD boosted car i'd have an EP3/DC5/EK9/DC2 with turbo/supercharged K20. I'd put money on any one of these being faster and more reliable than a Focus RS.
As for the reliability part though - every car can have problems - honda's arent bulletproof like so many profess - they are in my opinion more reliable than other manufacturers but anything can happen thats the happy world of motoring.