The 4.4 kg has more mass based towards the outer edge to help inertia.
I have the 4.4kg and its absolutly lovely.
I haven't noticed a problem with hill starts or traffic. The thing is our Hondas don't have much torque anyway so majority of the time you gas it up to pull away. Even then i can still pull away on tick over no worries.
If i was doing it again i would have bought the 4kg. But they where out of stock so opted for the 4.4kg. I love it heel and toe is also easier for matching RPM.
Just avoid Aluminium ones with a steel chromoly attachment they can rip off. Herd a couple of horror stories.
HTH