Dodgey idle stalls when stopping then nothing

[Mallyauto86]

Right i have kind of a wierd problem with my b18 ek

Its started stalling when il coming to a stop when hot the idle just gors up down up down then nothing

But i have an electrical problem aswell because last night i came to a stop and it went dead and the only thing that was working were the hazard warning lights

I disconectes the battery waited a bit then was off on my way but i don ´t understand what mu problem is

I also have idle variation when i switch my head lights on wich i never used to have and a slight splutter sometimes at around 4k rpm

If someone could help me would be most apreciated

 

[type-r-dunk]

Might be the main relay behind the glove box. take it out, pull cover off and check circuit board connections.
Dunx

 

[Mallyauto86]

That the detatchable bit on the back of the fuse box ??